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Don’t Give Up

I remember it like it was yesterday.  And it was horrible.  My first paid photo session.  She was pregnant and wanted some maternity shots.  I was full of ideas, dead batteries, and a lack of experience.

Put that together and the results were embarrassing.  I refunded her money and did not offer to reshoot.  I was too embarrassed and devastated.

Who did I think I was anyways?  It took a little while to heal from that, but I did not give up.  I kept trying, practicing, learning, reading.  Today, I can handle a shoot like that.  I still lack some experience and equipment.  But those are coming along and I definitely come up with images that I’m proud of and people like.

Had I given up, forget it.

Same with the Gingerbread House.  I could have given up after it fell down a couple of times.  I could have given up when I had a hard time with the icing.  I could definitely have given up when the cat licked the frosting off the roof.

But I didn’t.  And it worked out.  I even learned a few things for next time!  (Including the beauty of confectioner’s sugar to cover the roof patch!)

So, make your mistakes – you will.  Learn what you can from them and keep going.  Don’t give up!

Therese Kay is an author and photographer residing in Massachusetts. She loves the contemplative practices of visio divina and contemplative photography. She often writes about and teaches them to others.

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